Where Do I Stand...?

My Soul in Argument

Where do I Stand...?

On a brink of hopes and desires

or on a verge of a breakdown

Do I have a right to shatter 

or my soul can weep 

as a way towards mortal success

to get peace, integrity or solace

I am nowhere, as I am so tired

more 

Tired Soul...

Who wants to weep and 

creep

out of this worldly bond

of waiting for times

that 

will be mine

for times when 

I will be at peace with myself

When

I won't be looking for any escape

No no

Death is not all escape

that's another entanglement 

and I want to find peace before

finally having a farewell

prayer of...

of Rest in Peace....!!

When Life Gets You into a Paradigm Shift and Difficult to Inhale the Change

Stress Factor on Change

The most important thing that we forget to mention to ourselves, and of course to others is that "Change may be constant". But it is difficult to inhale and to get easily aligned with what's new in our lives. We all long for the greater good and strive to achieve our best. But when things are in a transitionary phase, there is a positive change. there is But one that puts us into a lot of upheavals, both externally and internally even more. I am here to give you an example from my personal life, and the big change that comes only a few months back. We moved from our ancestral home to another one, as ours was sold due to our whole family's consent. 

We were long looking for a serious buyer who could get our sunny and windy home with a stretching garden all around at a reasonable market price. It happened, and then we got the money. I have moved to a used but good spacious house with my own consent though under lots of pressure from the peer family group. But my brother with his family has moved to a new house, and our mother lives as per her desire in both houses. What seemed to be a joyous change, and we were looking for a greater good change in our financial situation, independent home, new car, startup of a new business, and a sense of ownership is more confused and stressed out. 

The new house with all independence and so-called authority that I wanted to feel exists nowhere. I was much more secure and cozy and there was an element of homelike at the older house which was built by my later father. I feel that my real whole life has passed in that house in the Garden Town of Lahore. The old big fruit trees, flowery plants, the e enchanting large garden, and lots more can't let me sink into the new house. We are making, making repairs in these houses, renovating and decorating as per our decisions, and likings but there I do not heart in it. It actually seems like a temporary place from where we have to migrate further,, my kids and my wife don't like the area, and we are not welcomed by the neighbors out here. We feel alone. Even if get a chance to pass my old space Garden Town for any reason, then arises a feeling of ownership, love, and deep association. 

My father's last resting place is there in Garden Town, and that is one of the major connecting reasons. But I long so deeply and crave to go back to my old place at times. I feel that I am the small kid who wants to escape from school and go back to his cozy home. But life moves on, and so are we and it can't be helped out. Let's see how my fast-beating heart will come to settle down with the acceptance of a new place, and the change that has already been opened and can't be reversed. As it was done with the will of our whole family which included my assurance too. So the paradigm shift in my case is still creating a lot of mess.....wish me to luck you, sweet guys...!!

Life is a Hard Test and How to Stay Positive in Difficult Times is an Art...!!

Peace, Perceptions and Life

Well, folks! You cannot disagree with the reality that life is a whole load of tests and trials. For some, it is quite an easy road and for others a very hard battle. But who can say that everything is perfect at every moment in his or her life? Nobody! I mean it when I say it with confidence and we have recently faced more than two years of coronavirus, vaccinations, deaths, social distancing, isolation, lockdowns, travel restrictions, unemployment, inflation, anxiety, fear, ailments of ourselves or our loved ones. I guess if it was 2019 and anybody could say he or she doesn't know what is the stress of isolation, trauma, and loss? Then it might be considered that they haven't faced the hard times….!! 

But the overhaul perceptions around the world have been entirely changed. When their masks and social distancing were made compulsory, and you fear every moment that you could catch that deadly COVID-19 Virus from anybody, and from the environment then the human psyche has entirely changed. So is the manipulation of the few over the masses has become a major issue. Each person in more than half of the world has faced these hard times, and the survivors can never forget what the hard times are and will tell stories of them to their children and grandchildren for sure. 

If we leave this coronavirus where it is lying, and then turn towards life then we can easily see that parenting is one of the most difficult tasks, and then getting an education, and searching for jobs, interviews, tests, and the whole job selection process demands lots of patience and confidence to stay cool and positive. Then to be intact with your job or business requires you to struggle to the best of your capabilities every day. Having a family and keeping their social, economic, emotional, and other requirements all intact and perfect is a big big job guy...!!

Staying and getting in love or romance is not that an easy job guys. It is not just dating and sending messages and chatting with your lover. It requires a base and then to bear the pain of losing someone in a relationship or either due to death or departure is a big trauma. Losing a favorite job, and a loss in business or examination is all that painful, and it requires lots of emotional guts to be ready to stand up, start the life journey, and fight against new odds in a way. But people in past times and in current times are not always in panic, anxiety, or depression. They accept the challenges of life with an optimistic approach, and then plan and deal with different situations. 

Having mastery and control over your emotions, and reactions to different happening in individual and collective life is all that matters. LIFE asks you to be a trained player and to behave with the strength of SOUL, at the times when the outer realities are looking against you. It is a time when you need to read motivational books, and blogs and work on your counseling to self-help yourself for having a real sector of love, life, and patience, and to cherish your real SUCCESS. Stay intact for more updates and insights. Thank you guys....!!

Post-pandemic Days and the Humanity in Crises as the World has Changed..!!

Coronavirus, Life and World

The world has changed into an unimaginable change due to the sudden fall of pandemics like Covid-19 that is stretching for almost two years. There are so many variants of coronavirus that emerge from one country to the whole world. As it is the end of 2021 and the world was praying and looking for a pandemic-free 2022, and to move on in life. But the celebrations of New Year and Holidays have been faded away with the arrival and sudden spread of a new corona variant named "Omicron". Yeah! now we see that many European countries, South Africa, Middle Eastern Countries along with North America as well as South America are again under many restrictions. Many flight schedules have been canceled, and again cinema, big malls, and theme parks along with tourist destinations have gone for closure. 

It is not an easy thing to survive in this world that is already losing its moral and ethical values. Where it is becoming so difficult to earn bread and butter for a single day with ease, especially in third world countries. The closure of businesses, lockdowns, unemployment, and lots of other compromises like kids' education, and many more have made people pessimistic, depressed, and losing hope. The best thing for any person out here is to survive against all odds and to live a normal life. 

Here, we see a definite flight of faith and those with a proper and pure understanding of the momentary pleasures of this mortal world. The ones who strongly believe in the Omnipresent God Almighty, and His Divine Plans are still at peace. We see in this Covid-19 case that the mortality rate was definitely high but the fear of getting infected was the one that has overcome humans. Everyone has become untouchable, but on a strange note, the crime ratio has risen to a great height. People haven't stopped looting, cheating, and doing murders, rape, and victimization of those who are weak. It is a phenomenon of the whole world, and we are still seeing wars and leaders lying to their nations without a fear of dying another day. If there was a misconception that some people are going to live long. 

But the current reality has disclosed to the hearts, minds, and souls of everyone that NO. Anyone, who catches Covid, and it gets worsened can die in a day. Isn't it proving that the mortals are so fragile then why so much fuss over this mortal world, and over lands, properties, and other material objects that may remain but we will be all gone like the old Greeks, Romans, Egyptians, Babylonians, Samurais, Vikings, and many more civilizations? It is time for everyone to ponder over the reality of fragile life, and then to think of humanity from a large perspective. To help others in distress, and to be the ones who can heal the souls and not the ones who play or give wounds to others. I wish and pray that post-pandemic days will be clear, shing, and compassionate for the humanity, world, and for every living creature in a real way.