Khalil ur Rehman Qamar - A Misunderstood Man and a Writer or a Proud Person

Khalil ur Rehman Qamar - Urdu Drama Writer 

Well, dear readers it is far easyto comment and to put anyone under blame in this digital era. Especially, the ones who have fame and fortune attached to them. At the same time, these attributes as ldo add up to pride and non- human characteristics amongst people. How I see a case of a famous drama writer, Khalil ur Rehman Qamar is a person, a misunderstood and overhyped guy.

He is a born genius but not a masterpiece creator, otherwise he would have had produced at least one great fiction or non fiction book. He is a drama and film writer, and he has to put boundaries over his intellectual capabilities due to the pressure of the producers,channels, and of the celebrities with whom he prefers to work. 

He had produced great dramas for Pakistan Television Network,PTV and for private channels in the past like "Dastak Aur Darwaza", "Boota From Toba Tek Singh", Landa Bazar, Laal Ishq, Mein Mar Gayee Shaukst Ali, Anokhi, Tou Dil Ka Kia Hua, Pyaray Afzal, Mera Naam Yousaf Hai, Sadqey Tumhare, Love, Life Aur Lahore, Mere Paas Tum Ho. Done of his popular films are "Punjab Nahin Jaungi", "London Nahin Jaoonga" etc.

He is a very find writer with great storylines, and especially a master of powerful dialogues but unfortunately he is very proud of his intellect and craft. He has mentioned it many forums. Seems like he is addicted to hud ien fame, and the highest level of respect given to him on the current media drama and film culture if Pakistan. He couldn't inhale it, and digest ig end that's why we see him bashing everyone in interviews or in his personal affairs being exposed over social media.

Nobody has a right to attack the self respect it self esteem of others, and to consider him or her beyond criticism. This arrogance and pride leschim to be defamed in the form of writing failures like "Gentleman" drama or "Sunn Mere Dil", being flopped dbd highly criticized as worst entertainment plays. But another aspect is that he jx against fake and paid feminism and Aurat March agenda, and had a fight with paid agent kafies who want free society of all immoral acts in Pakistan, and that's why liberal, secular minded women of mefua and focual media, and their like-minded men start as oreading venom and hatred over all forums. What's your point if view over it....??

Peace of Mind and Soul is More Important than Indulging in Worldly Chaos...!!

Peace of mind and Soul

Yeah! That's my perception of life and the whole world. The ordinary man's life is so hard that he or she hardly finds time for leisure and relaxation. If one gets into political discussions, social issues that can't be resolved by just discussion, and keep focusing and getting yourself frustrated about what could happen, and could go wrong in the future is simply baseless. When you don't have the power and the ability to change any situation then don't try to keep on thinking and procrastinating about it. Let the time decide how things would turn out. As future is not seen by anyone and it is as unpredictable for you as for anyone. It is highly necessary when we see the worst political scenario that is developed in Pakistan or even in the world. 

So, for instance, if we look at the current political scenario which is ongoing in Pakistan where a No-Confidence Motion was presented and accepted by the Speaker National Assembly of  Pakistan. Then we saw large gatherings by the opposition parties unified under one platform of PDM. The sitting Prime Minister Mr. Imran Khan left no sides unturned, he and his colleagues and allies also held public gatherings, big wows, false language, and all sorts of threats and deeds that they were blaming the opposition parties like PMLN and PPP or JUI-F. In the end, we see that social media and general media are all full of coverage, discussions, and vocal and written fight-outs. 

What happened as a result? The society, economy, and progression in the country are held at stake. Unfortunately, it is not thought about by the rulers and the other leaders who were vocals of so-called public rights. The combination of heated debates, arguments from the supporters of both sides, and false language and social media posts, articles, and blogs have created a BUZZ. But not of a good one! It has unsettled the nerves of a common man who is fighting hard in these post-pandemic times for bread and butter for himself and his family. Everyone and each sphere of life are severely affected by this political and social chaos. 

The voices have been raised and heated arguments and hatred has given a chance for depression, anxiety, and stress to prevail and spread like a wildfire. What will be next and what will happen in the coming days is a question in everyone's mind and on the tongue. Can we change the mindset of people who are our rulers and the ones who have passed their whole lives on luxuries and haven't faced hunger or poverty? No! It cannot be done by any single person or a group of people. Here I would like to address the readers as to why you are so anxious and curious as to what will be the result?

There is no more blessing than having peace of mind and a soul that is not upheaval by these worldly affairs. We haven't started the Russia Ukraine War, and cannot end it. I don't want to say that people should stop saying the truth, and freedom of expression needs to be compromised. But losing your sanity will eventually affect your health, and the economy, as well as the whole situation, is not worth taking into risk. Emotional balance and tranquility are highly necessary, and compassionate nature is always playing a positive role in each society, even if it is done on a small scale or the larger one. 

For example, we can see in the neighboring country India where an iron lady like Arundhati Roy keeps on saying what is right without fear on national and international forums. She has written numerous essays, masterpieces, and award-winning fiction novels on the prevalent socio-political and economic situation in her novels like "God of Small Things", and then in another bestseller "The ministry of Utmost Happiness". A masterpiece that depicts marginalization, racism, religious extremism, caste system, financial deprivation, genocide, and massive massacres in the name of a country and religion. So, we need to choose platforms to raise voices that must be read, heard, and can make a perception difference. It is a need of the day for all Pakistanis and the whole of humanity at these crucial times after coronavirus....!!

Love is a Chaos of One's Soul...!!

True Love and Modern Day Definition

Normally when people fall in love then they are actually trying to divert their attention to something new, exciting, charming, and a desire to have someone with who one can share all good and bad moments. Every lover thinks of his or her other partner that there is a constant listener, a way to catharsis, share, and care, and a way to fill in the physical attraction that may lead to liking or loving some other person. The crux of the whole situation is never known as to why people fall in love with those ones who have no blood relationship, no material gains, and who are facing their own hidden battles. 

Man is a Social Animal and described by one of the famous philosophers, and it proves right when we want to get out in the world in search of a person who loves us unconditionally. But do you really think there is any platonic love, and where there is no seen or hidden desire is not working? Some people accept the affection to cover up their loneliness, and others for the sake of having someone with whom they can spend their leisure time, chat frequently and have a fun time.

Here it is very important to point out that in these modern times, people are distracted or confused between love or a physical attraction. Many times, they love others for the sake of having a sexual desire being fulfilled, and they want to grab others for their carnal desires. They call it love, and then I have seen some people who are too vocal and confident over the issue that it is their personal choice, and having someone for a one-night stand or for a timely relationship is quite okay with them. It is really a matter of fact that you look for the best things, and that too for an instance. 

The time passes relationships never live for long, and there is no added value to them. It is really going to be a reason to look for the best reasons to find the true meaning. You can see very many factors, and the rest of the feelings are all there to keep on showcasing the true reasons. The emotional bond and the true feelings are the real crux of great love and the one that is longer lasting. One that does not hurt others, and violates the emotional reasons around with the good thing. Once and for all real love is an unsolved mystery of all ages and civilizations. But the modern-day has made it all that more complex with the use of smart gadgets, social media, instant reach out, and the tissue paper philosophy. That asks the humans to be used and then left out like a used tissue paper. 

Why People Put Their Lust for Worldly Affairs as an Excuse to Perform What They Want..!!

Worldly Desires and Modern Human Psyche

Most people in the current world are prone to worldly desires unlike, the olden times. There were values and courtesy for others, and compassion to serve and care for others. It is not a thing that things were ideal in every era and region but most of the civilized world had some set rules. But the modern world that emerged after the World War 11 is in fact in chaos. Its been decades of wars, cold wars, politics, financial gains, status, race, and more of the barriers that were created. The big chaotic situation that the world has seen arose when we had entered the 21st century. 

The whole social, cultural and financial situation has changed with a continuous presentation of new tools, gadgets, inventions, and the introduction of new mediums of entertainment. There was cinema and radio before the second world war but later there came the television that became the heart and soul of every home. The shows, dramas, documentaries, and films showcased on television are part and parcel of our lives. The world and especially the first world countries like the USA, Canada, United Kingdom, France, Germany, Italy, Spain Sweden, Norway, Denmark Holland, and many other countries gave permission and introduction to open up casinos, bars, pubs, clubs and there was a legal pornographic cinema industry being established. 

So, the values kept on changing as there was a big change in the socio-cultural set up of Europe and America. Lots of men got killed in the wars and women had to ear bread and butter for their families. It led to a free society as women were the equal partners in offices, banks, restaurants, the retail industry, sex workers, and lots more. But the real problem arose as the societies evolved not for the better but for the worst with segregated families, broken families, wandering kids being grown in all types of companies. The crime rate exceeded. So, did we see that the world started saying "Mind Your Own Business". The phrase and psyche were developed due to chaos and misguidance. 

Then we see that the world has changed and people are quite merciless, blunt, rude, selfishness has prevailed on a larger scale. The timely relationships have been a predominant factor, and most people don't want to be in long-term relations of commitment. They want a good time pass, and the present time is full of online connections, social media days, and the concept of being viral is a "New Normal". Now it is time that you cannot ask anyone to stop doing any bad act in front of others. If some person out of compassion asks his or her own siblings, kids, and others that the time relationships over calling apps, social media, and being in a social circle that may damage the whole lives and reputation. But the other people can easily say. It's their life and they have every right to live in their own preferred way. 

Yeah! We all are born free but as Aristotle said said "Man is Born free but has to live in Social and Legal Chains". That's absolutely true. Now people ask you to hand out with them and have a one-night stand and for them, it is okay to follow their lustful paths, and then move on, without even saying goodbye and a reason to leave someone who is really emotionally involved. But the young generation says that life is full of chances and they need to fulfill their world worldly desires and to get their lives being served.

Unlike our ancestors who always thought that commitment, friendship, relationships, and a word of mouth were more valuable than a legal document. So, we see the modern world is more prone to divert and to ditch the real feeling, thoughts, and emotions, people are considered honorable and valuable based on their financial and societal status and on their cowardly achievements. Good hearts, minds, and, souls are just good to quote but not for a longer relationship. 

Playing with Weak Emotions of Others is Also a Crime Against Humanity..!!

Emotional Exploitation is Against Humanity

I have seen in my life so many twists and turns, and with each new experience, I am better able to learn something new about human psychology. I am well aware of the fact that human feelings and emotions are one of the most vulnerable things in the world. Those people who claim themselves to have strong control over their nerves are seen shaken when there is something problematic happens with their loved ones. So, emotional intelligence or EIQ is now a more important determining factor than the age-old IQ result. The factors which contribute to the development of a human mind are very complex and vary from person to person. 

It is a digital world with gadgets and apps that connect people worldwide. But don't you think that the emotions and feelings are fading out. It is so common to write "I Love You" to anyone while chatting. But does it mean anything? In most cases, it does not. Actually, the gaps and distains in sharing and caring among the loved ones, within families, and a shortage of true friends is a universal crisis. So, the main purpose of most of the people who use online mediums and social media is to kill their time, and they end u to hurt others in many cases. 

Love and admiration are two tools that can melt the hearts like candles. So, it is a common strategy to try to understand what others are lacking in their lives, and most of the time if they feel alone and if ditched by a lover or a friend then it is so easy. To exploit this emotional space. When there is no meaning to saying Love You then don't say it. If you don't feel a friendly vibe for someone then don't assure it to others but be nice and compassionate instead. Especially after the outbreak of the COVID-19 pandemic, humanity is living in a very fragile state. The pressure and fear of losing loved ones, and loss their own lives has overshadowed all other goals. 

Now everyone tries to stay safe and secure and to spend time with the people who really mean something. At this time we all need to be truthful and follow our hearts but be conscious in telling others how we feel. As the emotional state of most of the people in affected areas is very sensitive. If you don't like or love someone then it is a humble request not to say it to that person. Here I can see many people who hate others and are not honest about their true feeling for others. 

Whether it is a deliberate effort or an unconscious state of expression varies with each individual. So, it is time to express our feeling for others as to how we feel, and don't let others be ruined with your words if you dislike them, or even when you don't feel any empathy or sympathy for them. Instead, just stay the way you are and let others move on with general friendship or social relationships. Isn't it a wise and more humanistic approach...??

Real Love Does Need Only Valentine Day to Showcase as How We Feel for Others..??

Real Love and Valentine Day

Love is an ambiance of life and this planet earth is surrounded and vibrated with the feeling of love. It was from the time Adam and Eve were in Paradise and then sent of Earth by God Almighty. It was the reason for the first human murder on this earth, and the feeling and emotion of love are not just subject to human beings but to every living creature whether they are animals, birds, plants, creeping species and it is in the air. The romance and attraction which you feel of different seasons, delights, luxuries, scenes and about your achievements. 

We as normal same human beings love others conditionally or unconditionally and the love of parents of their kids is unconditional and for a lifetime. The broth and sister love, for spouses, and the friendship, bonding, love for our nation, country, region, languages, food, culture, books, music, movies, games and much more is all around us. It is resonating in our souls with its full magnetic energy! So, we see that love is a far stretched on a greater framework than it is assumed and determined by the young generation who is al prone to movies, music, and romantic novels in this modern world. 

Romance is definitely a reality but not in every case. Sometimes we feel a strong urge to be with someone and to be loved and cared for by the person whom we love. It is a physical attraction for his or her facial beauty, bodily change, scholarly nature, or any other attribute. But at a later stage, we recognize or our experiences tell us that it was a timely crush or a desire to have someone, a tag that person with ourselves and it was never loved. It was the waste of time and a loss of self-esteem over which no one should ever compromise. 

I have heard and seen many cases where one partner is very much sincere in love and wants to go beyond boundaries for another one. But the latter person is just enjoying that supremacy that an altogether attention of someone can give. We see that many girls and boys fell in love with the wrong guys and face violence, physical and emotional abuses, and the other partner just abandoned them after filing his or her carnal desires. This is the main reason that true love needs expression but it is never ever subject to a single day. Our media and celebrities give ac wrong dimension with presenting their lovers, spouses, or anyone with red-colored balls, cakes, chocolates, and hugging or kissing on social media on 14th February, mans the Valentine Day. 

Actually, true love stays inside our souls and we want the beat and to serve our loved ones in different ways. True love is never exhibition in public but to a person for whom you have that special feeling. There is no need to put special messages, posts, stories on Instagram, Facebook, Twitter, Pinterest, Tumblr, Snapchat, or WhatsApp. It is all showcased with your actions, words, the consolations, and compassion that you show off and on, and then it is subject to assure that every person, and at any moment in the whole year or every single day. So, the real love was and never will be subjected to be a shoutout on a single day mans Valentine's day on 14th February every year for sure. 

Parizaad – An Epic Drama Serial that got Global Acclaim and A Rightful Applaud

Parizaad and Annie  - Beautiful End of Drama Serial

While watching the finale mega episode of Parizaad yesterday. What was flashing in my mind with eyes all wet was not just the flashback that the director had shown before the presentation of the actual last episode. My flashback was a way different as I was recognizing bits and pieces of myself and of other people whom I have met in my life in the character of Parizad, and the many other characters, both in male and female ways. The writer Hashim Nadeem has written wonders with his hands, and his dialogues and poetry are a perfect online gift that people are sharing with their loved ones out of this blockbuster serial, and on social media like Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, and YouTube.

Twitter is trending for these two days, and in fact, from the time the last episode ofParizaad was premiered in local cinemas. The big-screen charm is there but Pakistan is a country where people are more engaged with television, and a replay over YouTube now. The last episode was handled with utmost care and the director’s aesthetics were seen with the drone shots and the swirling camera rounds of snowy mountains, and the roads, the valleys, and the hut where the old but determined "Urdu" teacher was living presentation was awesome and so was the acting by bot leads means Parizaad, played by now a household name “Ahmad Ali Akbar”, and the undoubted superstar of this era named “Yumna Zaidi”, who played the role of the sweet but intelligent blind “Annie”.

As we saw that Parizaad escaped all luxuries and that lonely and miserable life as a left out man after the departure of Annie for the United States. He went to the extreme North of Pakistan, which means Neelum Valley by chance, and became a headmaster’s guest by fate who was solely running a primary school. So, we saw a new twist as he started teaching there and then took over the charge as the great master was ill. It was a new horizon for Parizaad and gave him a new but brighter meaning of life.

The second last episode was ended at a close encounter with Annie, who could see but didn’t recognize Parishad. For the whole week, there was a discussion over social media as to how could she not find any picture of him, and she could have easily guessed him as per her handmade sculpture. In the last epic episode, the disclosure of Sharjeel (Annie’s cousin and secret lover) made it clear that the man who was ashamed of his below-average looks and his dark skin had smashed his statue, and was never interested in having his photos being shot. They both met at the school award ceremony where Sharjeel had come with Annie, as she is a reported working with a news channel. The whole meeting, dialogue, and the acting of Ahmad were superb.

As Parizaad, now known as Ahmad was forced by the topper student to present him with the winner prize, he had to come to dice, and the senior master asked him to say a few words. It was a heart-touching moment as he didn’t want Annie to recognize him by his voice. But he had to speak, and when it happened and we saw a smiling Annie turning into a shocked lady, and then recognizing who was in front of her. Here I cannot say how many words can define how beautiful and hearing touching was the performance and expression changeover by Yumna Zaidi. Hats off to you great performer of Pakistan of this decade….!!

The last scene was a delight to watch when both leads were shown on a hilltop, and where she came said many things, and Parizaad was all grieving in pain. When she closed her eyes and felt her ideal and love of life, Parizaad, it was a fantabulous job. Well-conceived presented but beautifully done by both actors. The high standard of drama was maintained, and viewers were more than moved to see the wows of Annie with tearful eyes, a sense of discovery of her lost treasure.

Yeah! Parizaad, despite his extreme self-pity, was loved by that blind sweet girl. It gives hope to the viewers that physical deformity or the skin, race, and features are not subject to the definition of a good soul versus a bad and unlikeable one. Some critics think as to why the director hadn’t followed the real end of the novel of Parizad. Where he died act made suicide. But I see it’s good that the end was changed to a happy one with elegance and grace. If Parizaad could are dead or done suicide then a very wrong message would have conveyed to millions of viewers that only charming and conventionally beautiful people have a right to live and find love. Which I would never agree upon. Brave Team Parizaad and to Hum Tv for giving us a delightful and eye-opening drama after Raqeeb Se…!!

Love is Not Subject to Feeling and True Emotions Anymore...!!

Love in the Present World

Yeah! When I say it then there is a real logic and a hidden identity of modern life. Bygone are the days when there were talks of Platonic Love in literature, and in reality. now, you can't think of loving any other person if you don't feel him or her with touch, words, and much more. That's what we see in modern cinema as a matter of fact as well. The way the norms of the world have changed over the last century. The First World War and the Second World War were the reason for social, economical, cultural, and psychological changes that were so drastic and out of anyone's control. 

The emotional upheaval that was the aftermath of not just the world wars but the whole 20th century is full of a history of wars among countries, regions, racism, genocide, massacres, and violence. The 21st century inherited the inventions and discoveries of the 20th century along with the emotional breakup. The family system is almost on a verge of collapse in Europe, North America, and other Russia for instance. Young kids and teenagers have to move out of their cozy homes, to earn their bread and butter or to pay the rentals and their educational expenses. 

So, Generation X, or the digital one where we have seen the emergence of smart devices, distant video callings, global outreach, and social media as a new giant has snatched the moments of happiness, togetherness, and love that was between people. We want others when we feel lonely, and cannot give our shoulders to others when they desperately want us. It has strangely injected a desire to feel that moment and the person with all his or her personification. The result is the temporary physical relationship or sex that is bound to diminish as it was a need, not a desire, and not fulfilled in a civilized manner. 

The animal instinct is here and the modern-day media, movies, music, and social media posts and engagements are leading to such lustful desires. To crave for the sole purpose of fulfillment of carnal desires, without a longing to love for a lifetime. We see unusual and unmatched relationships and the world of tattoos where people love to disfigure their beautifully formed body organs by a Divine Rule. When this intervention leads to a rebellion then nothing pure and good can be sprouted out. 

So, it is need of the hour and a resolution in post-pandemic days to form strong family bonds, refresh and relive moments with our blood relations. To reinforce our friendships and harmonize with nature. To put our efforts into nurturing beautiful and longer-lasting relationships. To discourage negativity, hatred, violence, and greed amongst us. 

When the human relationship is not based on lust and greed but on a pure basis of love, and a desire to let others feel better in their lives then this world can really become a heaven-like place. Yeah! it is a mortal world and we are all going to diminish one day but we can create a positive impact in our societies and the whole world that can be long remembered and followed upon by others.